Michael Merry is a walking, talking, living book of knowledge on RLS and life in those long-gone days of the 1950s.
Some of his entries of the RLSOB site have reached this page
Gentlemen:
Council houses where I lived had built in coal cupboards accessible through a door in the kitchen and also through a half-door on the side of the house on the path to the back door. Through this the coalman would tip his sack.
On cold winter mornings (were there any other kind?) one would remove the ashes from last night's fire and out wood and newspaper into the grate before lighting. It helped to 'draw' the fire if the entrance was covered briefly with a newspaper. Once the stick were alight, coal was placed strategically around the budding fire. When this caught, coke could be added and 'banked up' for a steady, warm fire. Coke fires were great for toasting bead and muffins and I would imagine every house had a 'toasting fork' those long spindly wire things with prongs on the end. Eventually gas heaters came into mode but the old coal and coke fire was a stable that I would imagine most of us senior citizens recall.
The RLS heating system was still coke when I left in '56. Oh! how Bert protected his great pile outside the back door! Woe betides those who would dare to use the pellets for missiles!
Mike Merry 51/56
Michael J. Merry (Feb 11 1:27 PM)
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Gentlemen:
Many boys didn't have a fountain pen in the early 50's. The white porcelain inkwells at RLS were filled from a can not unlike a milk container which was wide at the bottom and narrowed towards the top and had a large spout. I believe it was Bert that kept the inkwells filled. The ink was very smelly and excellent for soaking blotting paper in and using a rubber band to propel it across the classroom in the direction of some unfortunate's head. The ink faded to a light brown with time. If you look at the report cards in the archives you can see this. Using a school pen meant your thumb and following two fingers were permanently stained with that horrible stuff.
Mike Merry 51/56
Michael J. Merry
THE BOX WITH RLS 'MATERIALS' MIKE MERRY BOUGHT
and what eventually was extracted from it
On and off for the past three years I've been working on a project that tickles
my fancy. At the reunion of the class of '51, I spoke to someone about my this
and my hobby of collecting old books and the history of RLS. He revealed he
was in the business of buying and selling old documents and maps himself. He
said he would let me know if he ever came across anything that might interest
me. I didn't think anything else about this until I received a call two weeks
back from my reunion friend who said that he had received a flyer which described
a book and document auction at Bournemouth which, amongst another 700 items,
contained "books, pictures and school records from Romford". The preview
for this show is scheduled for this Sunday, July 27 but he was able to call
someone he knew and and obtained some information about dates of the papers
and the titles of some ledgers in the lot. When he called me to inform me of
what he had found out I was a bit confused but I had a feeling there was an
associated interest. Hence my planned meeting. I was told in no unclear terms
that no information could be provided over the telephone and any conversation
would be off the record and informal. The ground rules are that my information
will either be confirmed as viable (based on the dates and titles I have been
provided with) or I will be told its probably nothing to do with my subject
and that I'm barking up the wrong tree. If its worth following up on I will
be in Bournemouth on the 2nd to see what its all about.
It's probably nothing but at my age there's nothing else to do except try and
impresss young ladies and better my book collection. I'll let you know. (Mike
Merry)
I am back from my trip. I was fortunate enough to have had lunch with Bill B. in London (Chez Max, Yeomans Row) last Tuesday. Before that I purchased two boxes of "Romford" documents at Auction on the 2nd of August. I had them shipped to Miami surface mail. They are due in this week and I will let you know what they are all about. I didn't have much time in Brighton to examine them and several packages are wrapped in manila paper and tied with string. (Mike Merry)
Brighton? I thought the auction was in Bournemouth???? Slip of the finger on the keyboard, Mike??? (David Maltby)
The Bournemouth Auction box came yesterday while I was at my office. Last night
I took a preliminary look. After a glance through the pulpit records and accounts
of the Methodist Church for 1949 and 1950 (all loose papers) I opened the first
packaged item. I have no idea where the contents came from but what was inside
was a not very exciting surprise. I now have in my hands two packages of letters
written by parents of RLS pupils to the school in order to excuse the absence
of their sons for various ailments. The packages each cover one year of school,
1950 and 1951. Colds seem the most common but coughs, a nose bleed, several
cases of boils and lots of "doctors appointments". There are a few
"death in the family" letters and a bunch of "Railway Strike"
or "Bus Strike". All are stamped with a RLS stamp as "Received"
and below is a handwritten date. The handwriting is not always the same and
it's easy to discern at least two different hands.
I had to leave things after half an hour as we had a great deal of problems
due to the power outage in New York etc. and was on the telephone most of the
evening trying to contact our our satellite ground stations.
I have a dilema now and will ask HM's their opinion. Should I provide some of
the names of the pupils and contents of the letters or keep this anonymous?
I don't know if some people will be embarrassed so I'll wait and not do anything
until opinions are in. I will be busy tomorrow but Sunday I've put the morning
aside to delve a little further into the contents of the box. I don't think
the "Please excuse my sons absence.." is very exciting so I don't
hold out much hope for any other explosive material. (Mike Merry)
Hi Mike, Seems you spent a lot and got a pig in a poke... so far, at least. Surely you did not go to UK only for the purpose of an uncertain auction? There is a queer musty odour somewhere in all this... but I will play along so far. So if you got any notes/letters to RLS concerning mesself, that would be interesting, though... but hardly to anyone but me, I think. And not enough for me to help defray your expenses in all this. (Robert Priddy)
Reveal! Reveal! Reveal! Mike.If anyone threatens to sue you could always claim that it was a wind-up!I'm sure you'll get support from The List for THAT excuse!!!Anyway if its only 50 and 51 you won't be publishing any of MY family skeletons - so reveal!!! (David Maltby)
Two replies from Robert and DGM both saying "Go ahead". Now I've
only seen 50 and 51 and not all of these by a long chalk. There are perhaps
a further dozen parcels in one box and some smaller cardboard shoe type boxes
and more in the other. It's hardly fair to post anything about the 50 and 51
inputs before exploring the rest of the junk, after all, if I find a letter
from Mrs Maltby for instance, explaining that David had a nasty boil on his
bottom, I certainly want to include that to balance the earlier letters!
Let's see what comes out of the box on Sunday and I will then advise what I
find and HM's can make the decision. For Robert. I didnt just go for the auction,
that was a last minute chance which fitted in with plans. My friend could have
done all the work but I've not been down to the south coast for about five years
so it was worth a trip. I went on vacation to see friends and try some of the
excellent restaurants of UK, Spain and Portugal. In Suffolk I had the pleasure
of eating at The Fox and Goose in Fressingfield. In London, Langans, Quaglinos
and Boisdale (as well as lunch with Bill at Chez Max). In Spain at Donastiaras,
La Baraca and Mingos in Madrid and Club Pino just over the border in Portugal.
Apart from the high (111 degrees) temperatures at time in Spain, it was enjoyable.
(Mike Merry)
I am following the MJM discoveries in what may or may not be an RLS Ark of
the Covenant with vacillating opinions... Take this bit he served up, for example...
"Back to other interesting things. I have opened another manilla packet
from the box and will tell you what I found later today when I get a few minutes.
Bear with me, much of the stuff is in bad condition, its been around for probably
40 odd years and has been fodder for insects and probably stored in a wet place
making many sheets stick together and much of the ink, run. There is still no
clue as to where it all came from but I have, I believe, some contacts who might
be able to help with that."
The little sceptic chap inside me says, 'he's just playing for time to think
up how to draw the wool further over the empty patches in his explanations',
while the eager believer thinks 'Must be tough with all the ink that has run,
pages stuck together... and why would this capital fellow bother to invent all
these details?'
To which the little cynic replies 'Aw, he's just seeing who he can dupe into
looking like a big boob.' To which the detached observer inside says 'He's just
doing his best to awaken interest in the old school again. It's harmless', to
which the cynic replies 'But if he's really got my catapult... nope, bet he
ain't!' and so on with each new episode in this King Solomon's mine safari.
(Robert Priddy)
Mike. Wind up or not, I want to be entertained. Please let us have the next instalment of your revelations.(Richard Hall)
Had a quick go through last night with the box and found another wrapped lot
of notes from parents requesting their sons be excused from swimming or games
for some reason or the other. The years seem to be 50/54 and I didn't see anything
from DGM's mum there!
I need to take a really good look because I recognize some of the names there
such as Heath and Baxter from my year and Norman from the 50 input. Several
from Cast's parents explaining a cycle accident which I remember very well,
he landed on his face in some gravel and was messed up for a couple of months,
very tender. Also, two of the smaller boxes contain what appears to be confiscated
and lost items. There are four rubber bulb water pistols with the rubber very
deteriorated and one plastic one. A caterpault made from a tree branch and what
looks like the tongue of a shoe, the 1/8th inch rubber is in very bad condition.
A copy of a small magazine named "Men Only" and a lurid novel by H.
Janson. Various packs of cigarettes, all open and most containing only one or
two insect specked fags. One Woodbines and one Weights and a pack of Players
with about fifteen fags still in it! Some pages from National Geographic with
rather lurid pictures displayed. two hand drawn pictures of the female body.
Three penknives of various sizes and a small piece of cardboard with what appears
to be answers to history questions on it, very faint. There are a couple of
caps, two football socks, a very stained tie and a purse with two pennies in
it. There is also a dried out fountain pen and a propelling pencil in a tin
box. I'll have a further look tomorrow and report. Still nothing earthshaking
I'm sorry to say. Hope this is not boring anyone. (Mike Merry)
The latest windup from Michael James (and his cohort David Maltby) are proving to be one of his best yet. BTW the two pennies are mine & I need them to buy a cream bun at Break. Please transmit ASAP. (David Gregory)
Hi Mike, Just to let you know I claim the caterpult... I recognise it as mine! 1/8 inch rubber from the ironmongers at Ardleigh Green and shoe tongue from my uncle's thrown-aways. Yes!! (Robert Priddy)
Facts from the Punishment Book:
1. Having perused the entire book I can confirm that only EP and GHRN
signed for administering punishment.
2. No punishments besides strokes of the cane are listed.
3. The maximum number of strokes is 6.
4. Only five boys during the 47/59 period received 6.
5. Two of these boys received 6 on two different occasions.
6. There are punishments for truancy but not for lateness.
7. One of the most common offences was "smoking"
8. "Disrspect to MR. xxx" is one of the most used catchphrases
9. "Putting fireworks in lavatory" is one strange entry.
10. "Cruelty to school horse" is another.
11. "Forgery of parents signature on excuse note" appears on at
least two dozen occasions.
12. At least two pupils who became Head Boys were caned in their early years.
13. Without going into numbers, 2 seems to be the favorite number for strokes
of the cane.
14. There is an entry in 1952 for "Contaminating swimming pool" (it
doesn't say with what but it bought an award of 2 strokes). (Mike Merry)
Mike wrote: 14. There is an entry in 1952 for "Contaminating swimming pool" (it doesn't say with what but it bought an award of 2 strokes). I recall someone putting potassium permanganate in the pool... I was there in 52, so it could have been that. Or else it could have been someone thinking that every little bit helps... but how would that have been detected? Cheers, Robert Priddy (49-53)
Up early this morning and into the box. After reading DGM's remarks about how
he never missed school or anything I was suitably impressed. I was absent on
occasion and missed games and swimming occasionally for some reason or the other.
I was packing those games and swimming notes back this morning into the paper
they came in. Many are very deteriorated and damaged by damp, several are stuck
in bunches where it seems, ink has fused. Trying to separate some of these I
came across a letter from a Mrs. M. A. Maltby dated 25th April 1957 addressed
to "Who it may concern" and requesting that "my son David"
be excused P.T. that day due to a "billious stomach".
Ah! Were there two David Maltby's in 1957? It's not been mentioned before as
far as I know. How about it David, is it possible that perhaps, just once you
missed PT? Reveal reveal Reveal as the saying goes!
Bad News regarding next two shoe boxes. More church records and about a hundred
essays from perhaps a Sunday School competition all entitled "Why I believe
in God, Creator of the World". Good News (but nothing earthshaking again)
regarding loose receipts. A receipt dated 12 September 1953 from A. Searle Printers
4 Eastern Road Romford in the amount of Seventeen pounds ten shillings for Z/Z
260GSm etc., 600 copies Alumni and Year book 1953-54. This receipt bears a "received"
receipt stampt with the initials "EVR" in the space provided. I dont
know what ZZ is or who EVR is but perhaps someone can fill in the blanks. These
initials appear on many of the excuse notes with exactly the same stamp. Have
to get to the golf course now. Will take another look when I have time. (Mike
Merry)
Mike anticipated: " ... a letter from Mrs Maltby for instance, explaining
that David had a nasty boil on his bottom ..."
Not a chance, mate! My mother didn't subscribe to illness or other assorted
weaknesses. Boils on bums, coughs, sneezes, spots, rashes, even, I suspect,
broken limbs and I'd STILL have been packed off to school with no chance of
an excused note! Didn't do me any harm ...etc., etc., Kids today...etc., etc.
The only time I can recall a note from my mother was when she discovered her
little boy, like all other first years, was expected to box in the house competition
so she wrote demanding that I be excused. I gave the note to Daddy Scho who
promptly gave me a glare and a pair of boxing gloves ...! I still have my little
red certificate for being champion at six stone that year!!! Sorry, Mum! (David
Maltby)
Mike, It saddens me to read so many posts from the Doubting Thomases in this list. Let me just say that I believe every word, and that although there is nothing of earth-shattering importance (so far) I feel that Andy would love you to send scans of the aforementioned items for the Library. I think we all look forward to seeing them. (Vince Leatt)
What indeed is in the box? the.librarian has set aside vast acres of disc space in anticipation of the imminent deluge of photos. The Greatest Collection of RLS Memorabilia In The World (tm) awaits with bated breath. (Andy Lee)
'EVR' could have been Mrs E.V. Rivett, a Clerical Assistant. But then Mike could have found this information, as I did, from the 1953-54 Alumni. (J. Alan Smith)
I regret to inform you that I did not meet as arranged. The brief encounter was planned for July 31st and my brother was supposed to take me to Romford for the 11am get-together. Unfortunately he was detained and by the time he arrived it was too late. I called to apologise though! Hopefully next time. (Mike Merry)
Vince is correct to remind me of my duties to send samples for the archives.
Firstly however, I do wish to solve the mystery of the boxes and their contents.
Where did they come from? Who compliled the information?
What happened on 18th November 1950 at the Methodist church. I've a partial
document and can read that date. I'ts badly water damaged and completely unreadable
except for that handwritten date in a margin in pencil. It says "Saturday
November 18th - Morning dedication" nothing else is readable. Did the Methodist
Church have a cricket team? There's a handwritten note from 1956 that looks
like a batting order. I really have no interest in the Methodist church but
seeing as though their documents are mixed in with some RLS stuff I wonder if
there is a connection at all?
I am having another look through now and will let you know what I find. I just
read J. Allan's post and after I did so I went up to the attic and pulled out
my copy of the blue book for 195/52. I only see Mrs. M. Mackay and Miss O Blakebrough
as Clerical Assistants. J Allan is probably right though, he usually is about
any of the school records. (Mike Merry)
The late Mrs. Maltby was a pillar of the educational establishment of Edwin
Lambert Park Lane Primary School. Testimonials to her skills as a teacher, and
the high esteem in which she was held have been posted in these annals by various
Hon. Mems. who benefited from her ministrations over the years. Her attention
to detail in all things educational was legendary and she was even more pernickety
about English usage, grammar, punctuation and spelling than I am. Incontrovertibly
she knew her who from her whom! Thus I can safely and confidently insist that
there was never any likelihood of her sending into school a letter that contained
either a spelling or a grammatical mistake!
However, her initials were M. A. and, if this unlikely letter was ever written,
it was written on her birthday! Both of these facts are accessible on the www
as Ian Macaulay can confirm.
April 25th would normally fall within the summer term when swimming replaced
PT. I would have expected that "my son David" (and she would have
inserted a comma after the word son!!) would have been requesting to be excused
"swimming" and not "PT". Though I have a stomach like a
cement mixer and have NEVER IN MY LIFE suffered from bilious conditions of any
sort or magnitude, it may be possible that I persuaded my mother to collude,
on a particularly cold day, in attempt to evade those hated swimming lessons
in that bloody unheated water. If I'd prefaced the attempt with a cup of tea
and breakfast in bed, a suitably lavish present, a "best Mum in the world"
birthday card and a bunch of flowers, I might have met with some success!But
I doubt it and I don't remember it!
What I DO remember, though, is that Easter was VERY late in 1957 with Good Friday
falling on April 19th and Easter Monday on 22nd. Seems like we were back in
school fairly promptly after the Bank Holiday? (David Maltby)
When I wrote the contents of <rs. M. A.'s note I did not have it in front
of me. At this time my home desk is full of papers and I am trying to spread
contents of boxes all over the floor in separate piles related to content. I
found the letter again this morning. It's written on commercial notepaper, not
a page torn from an exercise book or anything and, there is indeed a comma where
DGM indicated there should be. The letter is written in a very neat script and
the lines are very straight, this indicates care and attention and only (in
my experience) people who expect their handwriting to be read, write this way.
I don't seem to be getting many answers to the questions I posed about dates
and cricket teams etc. I will be quite busy this week but will check the posts
and see if any of them throw light on my feeble attempts to inventory the boxes.
One last question. Does the word "Prims" mean anything to anyone?
There is a file folder with that name on it but nothing inside. (Mike Merry)
David Gregory said: "The latest windup from Michael James (and his cohort
David Maltby) are proving to be one of his best yet. BTW the two pennies are
mine & I need them to buy a cream bun at Break. Please transmit ASAP"
Some cohert Maltby is. Absolutely no help at all! Who can remember a stomach
ache 40 years later? I ask you! I will be happy to send the two pennies if DG
can tell me the dates to prove they are his? Also, if Robert can let me know
if his caterpault should show saw marks or whittling? and was waxed twine used
to connect the shoe tongue? that also can be sent back. No takers for the almost
new football sock? (Mike Merry)
Well, Mike, the shoe tongue was certainly secured by some very stout thread, but whether it was waxed I can't quite recall. It must have been damn good wax if there is any still on it!! As to saw marks and whittling. Definitely whittles at the grooves at the ends where the rubber was attached to each end of the fork. Each side of the fork was of slightly different thickness... yes? I can't recall whether I made saw marks, but quite likely as I only had one of those small simple fretsaw-like tool, a small metal saw... if Mr. Marshall taught me correctly. If I have identified my dear weapon of miss destruction correctly, please do not send it, it might get damaged in the mail. Perhaps you could bring it? (Robert Priddy)
If, and it's a big if, the boxes are bona fide, and Mike comes across any RLS paperwork. Any "excuse" notes appertaining to one D Gregory will be in my own fair hand, and vice versa, and most certainly not written by our respective parents. Forgery was rife even at the age of 11. (Phil Kingham)
Back into the box for a short while yesterday evening. Miscellaneous pack of
letters to and from RCH. Most signed by Mrs. D. E. Bubbers BSc. but a couple
from a Mrs. Goddard. Almost all going to Mr. G. H. R. Newth, M.A. covering a
five year period which seems to be 1949/54.
Letters cover invitations to send 5th form to plays at the RLS. One letter,
dated March 23rd 1954 thanks GHRN for the invitation to the Dress Rehersal of
Richard 11 "which was thoroughly enjoyed by myself and thirty seven 5th
form atendees" signed by DEB.
Letter inviting "an interested group of boys from the RLS 5th form"
to attend a Religious Discussion Group to be held in the RCH library between
5pm and 630pm on the third Wednesday of each month. "Refreshments will
be provided at the end of the discussion".
Four letters from RCH complaining about a) RLS boys on bicycles making a nuisance
of themselves outside of RCH early mornings when girls were arriving at the
school b) Behavior at the RCH Summer Fair by two boys (unidentified) from RLS
who supposedly chased "Mrs. Russell's dogs" c) A complain from D.E.
Bubbers who had received a "telephone call from an irate parent of one
of her girls claiming that a group of boys from RLS had stolen scarf's from
atendees at a dance and had refused requests to return it, again no name of
the boys involved. d) Complaint of boys hanging around RCH gates at 3pm on a
Wednesday.
A letter from D.E. Bubbers, dated (cannot see exact day) but June, 1956, to
Mr. E. Pilling B.A. thanking him for his assistance and that of Mr. V. Schofield
and Mr. G. M. Pryde for opening the RLS swimming pool for the RCH Gala and providing
four life savers for same.
Letter from DEB to Mr. C. L. Walters dated January 26th 1956 thanking him for
the loan of "Reference Books" from the RLS Library.
Letter from Mrs. Goddard to Mr. G. E. Mold, dated March 7th 1956 accepting an
invitation on behalf of the RCH Chess Club to play a friendly match with RLS
at RLS on March 21st. There are a few dozen more letters from various societies
at RLS and RCH suggesting visits etc.
In addition there is a friendly letter from GHRN to the headmaster of Erith
School in Avenue Road Kent dated May 24th 1948 which suggests the schools arrange
a cricket fixture and in which GHRN refers to "a newspaper article regarding
a collision in the Thams off Erith earlier this month". Still nothing earth
shaking, sorry. (Mike Merry)
Whilst hoping that the whole thing is true... Just when did Daisy Bubbers become Head Mistress at RCH? At the begining of the War she was at East Ham Grammar because she taught my Mum. Say 1940. She would then have been a Deputy Head somewhere before Head at the end of the '40s (supposedly). Quite a decent rise. Can any older HMs throw any light on this (possible) new evidence. However, I do repeat line 1. (Robin Hackshall)
"Miscellaneous pack of letters to and from RCH. Most signed by Mrs. D.
E. Bubbers BSc."
Well, you learn something every day! I was always under the impression that
Dear Old Daisy had forgone the holy estate of matrimony, preferring to direct
her energies into the furtherance of her career. Unkind onlookers might have
suggested that it would have been a brave man who would have taken on Daisy
as a lifelong soul-mate. It gives one food for thought to speculate on the characteristics
of Mr. Bubbers. Did anyone ever meet him? (David Maltby)
Following Michaels posting of 20/08/03 describing some letters in detail I
am forced to admit that I can recall some of the events described and therefore
am also forced to admit that this hitherto described "scam" may indeed
be genuine after all!
I do, however, adamantly reject the serious accusations of forgery levelled
at me by one Scriber Kingham and formally challenge him to a duel on Rainham
Marshes at dawn (someday). (Unless, of course, subsequent archived articles
from The Box indicate otherwise!) (David Gregory)
To quote several HM's regarding Mike Merry's recent 'thread' - "Hmmmm!"...
Mike, did you, perchance. pick up a copy of the 4th July 03 Romford Recorder
whilst in UKland? It was the '100th Year' edition. The sports pages headline
"Prims toast a proper 75th birthday party". There is a report of Prims
convincingly winning a cricket match and a subsequent 'Barbecue and Drinks'
at - where else? - 'The Royal Liberty School'
A photo of some of the gathered current and former 'Prims' players was printed,
along with 1950's team . Two of the 50's team (Roy Cross and Alan Tucker) still
currently playing! Prims were formed in 1928. One founding member of the 1928
team, Norm Ritchie - the father of a current player, was an opening bowler and
featured in 590 games spanning an amazing 56 years, before 'hanging up his spikes'
in 1984! Incidently, the recent photo showed, I think, the RLS building in the
background, but didn't say whether that was where the match was played.
So was Mikes mysterious 'Prim's ' package a creation inspired by a recent Recorder
article? Is the fact that the 75th anniversary function was held at RLS a coincidence?
I think Mike asked earlier if there was an historical connection between RLS
and the Prims. Can anyone help further? (Terry Hadert)
Regarding the 'Prims" matter. RLS, RLS Old Boys and the Liberty Casuals
played cricket against every local team around over the years. I thought that
they might have played "Prims" and that some member might recall them.
I didn't get to UK until the 30th of July so I have not seen the Romford recorder
referred to. I will however look it up today. Also, I called D E Bubbers 'Mrs.",
it should of course be Miss. That's typing without paying attention. The other
laides teachers mentioned at RCH are "Mrs.". Here's another fact that
you might not know. Miss Bubbers worked after her retirement as a nurses aid.
She, as did GHRN, contracted the dreaded ALZ disease and passed away I am told
in the late 70's. There's nothing mysterious about this knowledge, I have mentioned
that I had a two cousins both with sons who attended RLS and with whom I meet,
or at least telephone, whenever I go home to UK. Several members of this group
recalled one of the cousins (now deceased) from their schooldays.
Back to other interesting things. I have opened another manilla packet from
the box and will tell you what I found later today when I get a few minutes.
Bear with me, much of the stuff is in bad condition, its been around for probably
40 odd years and has been fodder for insects and probably stored in a wet place
making many sheets stick together and much of the ink, run. There is still no
clue as to where it all came from but I have, I believe, some contacts who might
be able to help with that. (Mike Merry)
Naturally, the first thing I did was search out my own name in the book. I found a total of 4 entries. The first was - 24.1.52 1B Merry Entered cloakroom by window 1 GHRN. The last was 10.12.54 5F Merry Disrespect to Mr. Bell 4 GHRN. Perhaps the best one was 9.11.53 3F Merry Spitting at nuns 4 GHRN. The only other one was for disrespect to Mr. Askew and I remember that was for disrupting the cross country final.
Because of the nature of the book and some of the reasons for punishment listed, these are the only entries I will reveal. While I personally care not a grain of salt about my own misdeeds, there will be others who would not like their indiscretions made public. For instance, "stealing" is not an uncommon entry and "misbehavior in toilets" is another that is open to interpretation. I believe it best to let sleeping dogs lie. (Mike Merry)
The Punishment Book is a very informal record to my eye. It's a regular long
type of accounting book with no title on the outside at all.
Inside are half a dozen columns on each page and thirty rows on each page. The
book is not full, about 50 pages are used. I counted about 2,500 entries through
July 15th 1959 (the book started September 15th 1947). That gives an average
of about 200 punishments per year.
The only headings are on the first page and after that there are none at all.
The original headings are Date, Form, Name, Offence, Strokes and Signature.
Dates are written (example) 14.2.50. Then comes the culprits form (1a 2s, 3g
etc). The name is merely the surname with no initials unless there is someone
else of the same name (Smith J. for instance and later Smith R.) The offence
is written (example) "Bullying" and a small note such as "kicking
Smith of 1a) or "smoking" or "Truancy" or "Foul language
in class" etc. There is not much in the way of explanation. Nor is there
anything to indicate who made the complaint. All of the "Signature"
entries are initials. Vast majority are GHRN but a few groups of EP (obviously
on days that Scruff was away). There was not punishment every day by a long
chalk. Sometimes six or seven or even ten days could pass without the whack
being given. However, there are "Multiple" entries, for instance for
"smoking in High Trees" and they are indicated as being the same offence
for up to four or five boys, same number of strokes (2) and same date. Same
thing for "Truancy" etc.
The EP Journal or Diary is a collection of what seems to be very political notes
and explanations as well as official letters and in some cases, unofficial ones!It
is obvious that EP was the "point man" for GHRN with the Governors
and the Romford authorities. I am still looking through this and will comment
once I have formed an opinion. It's interesting reading. (Mike Merry)
Punishment Book - Personal Entries: Something from the 1966-1971 files :- I never did get back a couple of books I took into school that were confiscated. One was an interesting historical story of life in a medieval convent (and I think it predated The Devils). The other was an old hardback book on how to hypnotise people - didn't master it 'tho. As for the punishment book - a 'few' detentions in Jake's office when you a large (20 number) number and had to add the original to the sum ten times and 3 lots of 2 canes and one of 3. My best 'get out' one evening was when I had two detentions at the same time - one was Physics I think and the other with Jake, so I pulled rank on the physics one and then pleaded 'no bike lights' on the second and got away with both. (Chris Fribbins)
Final two items I found in the box were:
1. The school Punishment Book from 1947 through 1959. (I thought someone said
that it was lost or there wasn't one?)
2. An unofficial diary of events concerning RLS through those same years written
by Mr. E. Pilling.
My thoughts as to whom collected most of the contents of these boxes were confirmed
when I found the diary. It kept me up until 4am this morning. The Punishment
Book reads like a members list of RLS 0ld Boys! I'm only up to '56 so far. (Mike
Merry)
The contents of the box were damp when I saw them at the auction. I assumed
that they had been stored somewhere where water had got at the contents. They
had then been put into the big Sainsbury's boxes, which were dry. Some stuff
is wet, other dry and brittle. It's a mess and my studio looks like a forensics
lab right now. Much of the stuff is useless and unreadable. I am dumping this
out and only saving the items that can be read and which in some way concern
RLS. The Pulpit Notes, Accounts and Parish items I am also getting rid of.
As for the names on these latest notes, I said at the beginnng I would not put
names all over the list, although I must say the recipient would be about 113
or so by now so it's hardly likely he is still around. He did have three children
and a wife though!
I only had a very very faint idea who this lot might have belonged to at the
beginning but after seeing the last lot of notes I know exactly who it is. I'm
sure, if everyone puts on their thinking caps, they can guess very easily also.
I hope to finish up this weekend and put this to rest so I don't cluter up the
list any more with this junk. (Mike Merry)
Mike,Appropo (is that how you spell it?) 'I will not reveal the name of the
person they were written to'
and having followed this thread with a morbid interest, I have to ask - "why
not?". And another thing. Why is everything so bloody damp? After being
around for 40/50 years and consigned to your abode in warmer climes, one would
assume that dryness would be uppermost (Derek Humphrey)
Very interesting find, however I will merely give you the contents of a couple
of letters. I will not reveal the name of the person they were written to. Andy
can decide if he wants to do this and put them in the library or destroy them
when he gets the package. In any case, many of them are unreadable with the
ink having run and the words obliterated or completely stuck together in a solid
mass. These I will merely thow away, saving the dozen or so that can be read.
First item: Handwritten (most of these appear to be personal type of notes and
requests as opposed to typewritten official memorandum's.) The first two are
on the paper of Borough Education Office 90 Eastern Road Romford.
--
30/10/53 Gidea Park
Dear xxxxx I am taking the liberty of dropping this note through your letter
box on my way home this PM as Olive said you would be up town today. Latham
came by my office this morning and said that a neighbor had complained to him
about XXX using that slipper of his again. While I
have the greatest respect for xxx, this is not the first time I've mentioned
this to you. Will you please have a word with him this coming week. I know the
lads ask for it sometimes but there are procedures for punishment as you know.
I will probably be at the Old Libs clubhouse Saturday so we can talk there if
you intend to see any of the games. GTJ
--
10/11/54 Gidea Park
Dear xxxx In the canteen this morning Bill White mentioned that there had been
two bonfire night incidents last Friday, involving several boys from the Libery,
two of them over here from America. I am given to understand that the police
at Gidea Park were called by a resident of Eugene Close to complain about boys
throwing fireworks near his house and frightening his two cats. The resident,
said he recognized Liberty blazers. I called Reg but I learn that he is in Portsmouth
today. I am dropping this note off on my way home and will walk over this evening
when I trust you can enlighten me further regarding this event. GTJ
--
7/1/54 Brian Rd., Dear xxx After our chat last Saturday I was pleased to receive
a formal note from Johnny xxxx with an invitation to play on the 19th. I have
made arrangements to get free around 11am so providing there are no rail delays
I will be at the school by noon. Thank you again for including me in this match.
Ron xxx
--
There are another dozen readable letters all in the same type of mode, all somehow
connected with the school but containing nothing more than the bland contents
listed above. I'll package them up. (Mike Merry)
Coming towards the end of the box materials now. Last evening I unwrapped another manilla parcel and found amongst the inevitable church accounting papers, several letters addressed to a member of the staff. These looked like someone had set a fire extinguisher on them but I managed to unstick them and left them to dry out on paper towels overnight. I'll give you some of the content later today. There are only three or four packages left now and I have started getting a parcel ready to send to Andy. The damaged stuff I have retreived I've slid into clear plastic sleeves and the stuff in "reasonable" condition I've put between paper toowels to give it a bit of padding. (Mike Merry)
Some months back I told you of my findings in the box I purchased which was
said to include papers and documents from Romford. I told of how I was trying
to sort out the items and put them in some kind of order.
There was a lot of junk with no interest to anyone, there was the Punishment
Book which provided excellent reading and there were packets of papers containing
some assorted of information on RLS from the day it opened in November 1921
through 1960.
In addition there was what was obviously a collection of papers which were being
saved for a purpose, probably a history of the school. Amongst these there were
many that I could not decipher or understand vis a vis their place in the order
of the overall idea. I've had to
abandon these as useless to my own efforts. If only there were more time and
other sources of reference, but of course, there are not after all these years.
These papers had been collected by a member of staff and not filed or sorted
in any order. It took me three weeks to just get the items classified by year
and a further two weeks to throw out the junk, water damaged items, and things
which seemed to have no redeeming
features whatsoever.
It was, in my opinion, a worthwhile operation. I gleaned from the papers a history
previously little explored and I have completed the first 25 years in form of
an essay.
The information provides a fascinating look at early RLS. When I say fascinating
I mean to the members of the Group who are interested in the early history of
the school. Perhaps one or two of you will read it, nod your head and say "I
often wondered about that!"
So there we are. Tomorrow I'll post the first part of the story. Whether you
read it or not is up to you. Remember, it's not obligatory to read anything
that's posted here, after all, it's only a tiny piece of history and probably
won't appeal to all.
On another subject, I have still not decided when/if to Fedex Andy the papers
I have separated for inclusion in the archives. I am still mulling this over.
It's not an easy decision as you may well understand. (Mike Merry)
THE MAIN RESULT OF MIKE'S BOXING: Ernest Pilling was born in 1895 at Newton
Heath, north east of the city of Manchester. Early documents record that after
leaving Manchester University in 1917, Pilling commenced teaching at Manchester
Grammar School. The venerable Old Hall Lane institution with it's "Sapere
Aude" (Have the Courage to Think) motto seems to have proved a fertile
breeding ground for Pilling's ambitions and it was at this time that he surely
came to the notice of S. B. Hartley, a Magdalene scholar and ex MGS pupil who
had returned to his old school to teach Classics. In all likelihood they first
became friends playing cricket for MGS's alumni and old boys team and this friendship
thrived when they discovered a mutual interest in music, Pilling it seems, leaning
towards opera and Hartley, an enthusiastic pianist and composer. There must
have been many discussions regarding the future of education between the two.
Pilling, although a disciplinarian, could understand Hartley's views on interacting
with pupils and providing support for boys who perhaps due to social pressures,
could not rely upon their own parents for assistance and advice. He agreed with
Hartley's approach but also felt that discipline should not be neglected.
Hartley was beginning to attract national attention with his radical views regarding
the teachers role in education at this time and after he met Hilda Johnstone,
a Professor of History at Manchester University at a gathering, she spoke with
the Rev. Canon Claude
Jenkins, Head of the History Department at Kings College about Hartley's ideas.
Jenkins probably invited Hartley to speak at Kings early in 1919 and Hartley
traveled south and addressed an enthusiastic audience sometime during the spring
of that year. He talked of his philosophy, doubtlessly addressed the necessity
of building relationships with pupils and acting as a mentor rather than the
prevailing trend of the day, which was control by discipline. Present at the
event was Augustus Hickley, a prominent member of Chelmsford Star Co-operative,
a Methodist elder who thought like Hartley and who wielded some influence in
the country's educational circles at the time.
In 1920 when plans were being formed to open a new boys school in the Romford
area, Hickley it seems, spoke with friends at the Government Board of Education
and suggested that Hartley be considered for the post of first Headmaster. Hartley
was interviewed at cHelmsford in December 1920 and two weeks later the powers
that be offered him the post officially. Before accepting the position, Hartley
requested that he be able to name his own assistant, and after hearing of Pilling's
qualifications, no objections seemed to have been raised by the Board. In January
of 1921 the two men submitted their resignations to MGS as of the end of the
school year ( July 1921). In mid July they traveled south to take up their new
positions. By bringing Pilling with him, Harley was ensuring a more traditional
disciplinarian was his deputy which would offset any repercussions resulting
from any lapses in his own philosophy.
There must have been an enormous amount of work to do before the official opening
of the school in November. One of the first problems would have been when Hartley
decided that the school should be called The Romford Royal Liberty Grammar School
for Boys while the
Government Board of Education insisted that the name was Romford County High
School for Boys. This issue it seems, was resolved before the opening ceremony,
although according to comments made later, Hartley and the President of the
BOE, Henry Fisher did discuss the
matter privately during the morning of the inaugural day.
According to Pilling, Hartley engaged in spirited correspondence with anyone
who disagreed with his designating the school "Royal Liberty". There
is a story concerning a letter from Albert Illingworth, who was Postmaster General
at the time, which seems to have chastised Hartley for appropriating the word
"Royal" in the schools title. He wrote "it has been bought to
my attention by Postal officials that your establishment uses the word "Royal"
in its name. It is my duty to ask you if a charter was granted allowing you
this privilege?" It's said that Hartley's reply was "sharp and to
the point", telling Illingworth that the lands on which the school stood
had indeed been a "Royal Liberty" in Henry VIII's reign and therefore
the school had every right to utilize the name.
We are told that Hartley and Pilling it's recorded, attended Church on November
6th, 1921 and "Gave thanks to God for providing us with the opportunity
to teach at the new Royal Liberty School". The School had actually opened
and accepted pupils since November 1st, however, the official opening ceremony
took place on November 9th and the Liberal Member of Parliament H. A. L. Fisher,
President of the Board of Education opened the school at that time. He was reportedly
accompanied by Sir Amherst Selby-Bigge, the Permanent Secretary to the Board,
and Pilling spent quite some time that afternoon begging and pleading for additional
supplies, which were in short supply after the 1st World War. Selby-Bigge explained
to Pilling that the Board of Education, was established in 1899 from earlier
bodies. The board however, never actually met, and the President acted in all
respects as Minister of Education. The board's activity covered only England
and Wales and most education was actually run by local education authorities,
part of borough and county borough councils. It was established in 1902, and
the board has supervisory powers only. He did however, promise to "assist
in whichever way possible" and it appeared to Pilling that Selby-Bigge
"was going to be of great help in the near future in allowing the new RLS
to function smoothly with all of the necessary tools."
Pilling's tasks, in addition to his responsibilities for English and Religion,
included recruiting young men to teach at Royal Liberty. It appears that in
August of 1921 he met Paul Nash, the surrealist, who was convalescing in Romford
where he had been a map-reading
instructor during 1916. It's likely that he asked Nash if he would be interested
in teaching Art at RLS and it seemed for a while that Nash might take the job.
However in October of that year he returned to London and later joined the Royal
College of Art as an assistant. Pilling seems to have been undaunted. There
were many ex military men who were desperate for teaching jobs and by 1923,
the school was already making a name for itself both as an institute of learning
and a budding power in the sports field.
It was in June of 1925 while they were both playing cricket for Gidea Park that
Hartley asked Pilling to undertake yet another mission. This was to liaise with
the local education authorities and generally push for any additional help outside
of the regular boundaries that the school could get.
Pilling met and seems to have cultivated the friendship of Charles Rhys, the
National Liberal MP who had won a Military Cross for service in France in 1917.
Rhys probably provided Pilling with introductions to influential citizens in
the Romford area and Pilling
made sure that they were invited to events at the school and encouraged to send
their sons to be educated there.
In 1926 Ken Farnes who was to become one the greatest fast bowlers for England,
Essex, and Cambridge University in the years before the Second World War, joined
RLS and was taken under the wing of Hartley and Pilling, both cricket enthusiasts.
Pilling talked of watching Farnes play at Reed Pond Walk, which he describes
as `behind the Raphael's tennis courts'. This is where it's said that Farnes
began his cricket career. The masters encouraged Farnes efforts and soon had
him playing with the Gidea Park side, of which they were both regulars.
By 1930 RLS was well established and considered as a viable second choice to
Brentwood School. In fact, as Pilling so succinctly stated "and our lad's
wear caps. The Liberty motto is "Semper Procedens" (which I need not
translate) while the boater bunch at
Brentwood can only boast "Virtue, Learning and Manners" in English.
Perhaps we are more of the Public School than they." From various sources
it seems that Pilling was very happy doing what he did and one gets the idea
that he enjoyed his liaison duties perhaps more
than teaching.
Through the 30's, RLS's reputation grew, as it sent more and more of its pupils
on to University. Honors were published in the annual Speech Day program and
every year the number and luster of the awards increased. The schools athletes
now traveled far and wide to meet any challenger. They played against amateur
sides and junior university XI's and on one occasion according to Pilling "thrashed
the Essex Regiment's football team on their home pitch at Colchester".
In 1939 when war broke out the school suffered an exodus of pupils and teachers
who went to join the armed forces. Those that remained were either to old to
fight or who were prohibited from doing so due to illness or injury. Pilling
we learn, at 46 volunteered for the Home Guard but was turned down due to "the
importance of providing education and leadership to our young men" as we
so aptly learn from notes made during the later months of that year.
>From all events and circumstances it appears that about this time Pilling
was "recruited" by Charles Rhys. Rhys, the ex MP, was now with the
Auxiliary Units, as they were known. These super-secret groups were to stay
behind when civilian populations were evacuated
should the Germans invade England. They would hide in specially constructed
underground bunkers, which were dotted around the country. Norfolk, Suffolk
and Essex alone contained over 300 of these bunkers. After training at Coleshill
House in Highworth (Wiltshire),
Pilling was assigned to a sub-Patrol under Leader Keith Seabrook who was based
in Brentwood. There were three bunkers and about 18 men under his command. All
had been recruited by Rhys and Seabrook and none were professional military
men. They were chosen for their unquestioned loyalty and their ability to get
things done with a minimum of fuss. There is little information from Pilling
regarding the Units. It seems they were so secret that the records regarding
their activities have still to be released. Pilling did say that they were "authorized
by the highest authority to carry out sabotage to German communications, destroy
or immobilize vehicles and even to "execute collaborators if so instructed'."
There are only two recorded events regarding this phase of Pilling's life and
both are brief and apart from the basic information, somewhat lacking in detail.
At RLS, Pilling seems to have thrown himself into preparing trenches and enforcing
air raid drills at the school. He met frequently with Romford authorities and
was instrumental in bringing experts to the school to talk to the boys about
various subjects involving the war. He played an active part in planning the
menu's for the School Dinners as we find from notes dated Monday March 9th,
1942. The week's menu was "Monday boiled potatoes, boiled cabbage, cheese
pie, Spotted Dick. Tuesday Sausages with Mash and boiled greens, Baked
sultana cake. Wednesday Haddock, mashed potatoes, baked beans, jelly. Thursday
Pea Pure pancakes with turnip mash and green beans, Prune Pudding.. Friday Mock
sausages, macaroni, cabbage, mock date pudding. He writes of `making sure the
boys had their Virol', which
seems to have been some kind of vitamin. The first Americans had arrived in
Britain in January and the Blitz was intensifying. In the desert, Rommel's forces
were advancing on Tobruk in a counter attack. PilLing mentioned to a friend
on March 22nd ".. yesterday the wife had to queue up for two hours and
managed to get a pound of cooking apples and two oranges. We spent yesterday
night in the Anderson and didn't get any sleep. Helped move along the knitting
of my new pullover however!"
Piling at these times was very upbeat and spoke often of happenings at the school
and around the district. There seems to be significant gaps in Pilling's routine
for a couple of days each month. These are explained by notes referring to "out
on camping trip for two (or four) days". These `Camping Trips' seem to
occur every month on or about the 23rd or 24th, whichever was a weekend, perhaps
these were the periods when Pilling was training in the Auxiliaries. Later that
year on July 5th, Pilling recorded "There was " a grand concert in
Raphael's Park given by a band from the Royal Air Force. I believe that all
of Romford and Gidea Park turned out to hear the music".
By 1943 things had started to improve as far as the war was concerned. Pilling
met with "young Ralph Bennett who does something hush hush at a place called
Bletchley in Buckinghamshire. He was down here to see the Head who he had followed
to Cambridge". Bennett was with the Enigma project as we learned after
the war and was an admirer of Hartley who had encouraged him to attend Cambridge.
From this information it seems that even someone who was involved in secret
activities apparently had no knowledge of the secrets of others.
Although the war news was better, the food situation was still poor. Milk was
provided, whenever available, for pupils and occasionally, when real sugar was
available, the cooks were able to produce meringues. Otherwise the various pies,
puddings etc. were produced
using sugar beet. In May of 1943 the Dam Busters dropped their bombs and a newspaper
cutting boasts large headlines proclaiming "German Dam's breached".
In June, Churchill met with Roosevelt in Casablanca and in July Mussolini was
deposed. In November Stalin met with them in Tehran where Overlord, the invasion
of France, was discussed. On December 6th a cryptic note attributed to Pilling
records "Seabrook said that Rhys called to say no more uncomfortable weekends
Thank God for that!", probably a reference to the Auxiliary Units
being stood down around that time and Pilling's relief at not having to rough
it any more.
By 1944 there was little doubt that the allies were winning the war. In June
came the invasion of France and the following year, victory over both Germany
and Japan. By 1946 people were trying to forget the war but rationing continued
and even bread was included due to a very bad harvest. Bread rationing continued
we learn from Pilling "through
1948." In 1954, with meat finally becoming more available rationing ended
in England. Pilling mentioned in August of 1946 that his wife was often able
to `pick up a little extra' by arriving early at Romford Market on a Wednesday
morning.
One difference that the end of the war made to RLS was that there were now thousands
of ex-servicemen attending teaching colleges throughout the UK. Many of the
men had been at university before and during the war and now it was over, were
ready to enter the field of
education. Pilling seems to have been the interviewer for these candidates and
the resulting hires accurately reflected the philosophy of both Harley and Pilling
and the direction in which RLS would sail in the future.
It must have been about this time that Hartley first mentioned to Pilling his
intentions to retire from the Headmastership in the not to distant future. Hartley
was about sixty six in 1946 and had been with RLS since day one. Pilling must
have thought that his chances of
succeeding Hartley were high, after all he had been the strength behind the
throne and had a better working knowledge of the school and the politics involved
in running it, than anyone. As 1946 ended then, Pilling could face the future
confident that his highest
ambitions might well be realized in the next 24 months.
(To be continued)
(The contents of this essay were a result of the examination and interpretation
of documents, books, papers and letters. While every effort has been made to
ensure that the contents accurately reflect the happenings, there is no sure
way of determining if the events depicted herein took place in the order they
are set out, or if indeed, these events did actually take place as described.
It is impossible to predict what a subject thinks in any situation and to prophesize
why certain actions were taken. It falls to the historian
to use available materials to propose their best analysis of a situation and
this missive does just that, no more. The contents, far from being portrayed
as a definitive history, should be viewed as the author's view of what he believed
occurred.) (Mike Merry)